Taking the time to understand the treatment your child will be having and knowing how to comfort them before the procedure can lead to a better overall experience. Learn some of the best strategies that can help prepare you and your child for pediatric surgery.
What Is Pediatric Surgery?
Pediatric surgery is the surgical treatment of diseases and injuries in babies, children, and teenagers. The surgical procedures are done by pediatric surgeons, who are doctors with specialized training in surgery for children ranging from newborns to late adolescence.
Although the definition of pediatric surgery is broad, the experience is very different depending on the age and maturity of the child. For instance, disruption of daily schedules and separation anxiety may be factors to prepare for in younger children, while older children may have questions that you may not know how to answer.
Each age group of children may need specific ways to help them cope with their procedure, and as a parent, you can have a positive impact on the process by using the following strategies to help them.
At the hospital on the day of surgery, your baby may feel stress or anxiety because of the change in schedule and the new sights, sounds, and smells. It can be helpful to bring your baby’s favorite toy to keep them busy and distracted.
You can also perform the personal, comforting strategies that help your baby calm down or feel relaxed, such as rocking and carrying them while walking back and forth.
When it’s time for surgery, your baby will be separated from you to undergo the procedure. Depending on the pediatric surgeon’s instructions, you may or may not be permitted in the operating room during the anesthesia portion of the procedure.
In all cases, be sure to remain calm throughout the process, and comfort your baby as much you can when you are with them.
For example, if their surgery involves their leg, you may want to say, “the doctor will make your leg better,” rather than a detailed explanation that will confuse them.
On the day of the surgery, toddlers may be tearful or fussy, as they will be required to go without food or drink before the surgery and not understand why. The hospital setting may also be upsetting to them, and they may need comfort and want to be held more than usual.
Be reassuring to them and allow them to do things they usually enjoy, such as drawing and coloring. Many hospitals have children’s play areas, which can help keep them occupied until the procedure.
Toddlers will often take on their parents’ attitudes, so if you appear to be upset and concerned, they may also be upset. Presenting a calm, happy attitude when around your child will help considerably when trying to keep them calm and comfortable.
On the day of surgery, your preschooler may be comforted by having familiar objects present with them, such as their favorite blanket and stuffed animal.
Consider letting them carry out their typical activities at the hospital, such as reading a book or drawing. If your child enjoys coloring, you may want to use printable surgery coloring books to help explain the surgery to them while keeping them entertained.
Before surgery, your child may worry about time away from social activities with friends, school, and sports. Letting them know that they will be able to do all those activities after they recover can give them a sense of peace.
On the day of surgery, school-aged children may worry that they will be left alone. They may repeatedly ask where you will be during the procedure. Assure them that you will be with them throughout the process, especially in the operating room (during anesthesia) if the pediatric surgeon will allow it.
If your child enjoys comic books or certain children’s shows, use these things to help keep their mind off the procedure.
Before surgery, they should have opportunities to ask questions and should be included in any discussions with the doctor about the surgery if they so desire. This age group may feel mad or sad if they are excluded from decisions and discussions about their health.
On the day of surgery, your child may have mixed emotions. Be sure to reassure them that everything will go well and answer any last questions that they may have for you.
If your child enjoys a certain smartphone game, playing it together in the waiting room can be a good way to calm down any nerves they or even you may have.
Also, be sure to have thorough conversations with your doctor regarding the procedure so that you fully understand the steps needed to take before and after your child’s surgery. This can help ensure a positive outcome.
